Saturday, March 11, 2017
Thursday, March 9, 2017
Anna built a birdhouse at her class after school at the Fenton Library. She is the crafty one and so I signed her up for a class that involved electronics to glitter, chemical reactions and glue.
She built a birdhouse. Then she covered it in tape and paint. She did a wonderful job, it is really cute. She ran out of the van when we got home and put it on the porch to be some birds home.
Problem is it is covered in washi tape. It is raining and snowy here. That tape will fade and fall off soon. I know that. As mom I want to quick varnish it 3 times and protect it so she doesn't get disappointed if/when it falls apart.
I want to protect her. I want to keep her safe and happy. This move has been hard, she doesn't have any close friends, the girls behave catty and mean. Her heart is grieving. She really doesn't have any connection with her old friends. I hurt for her. When we moved her cat of 3 years died. She is 12, all around bad time to be a kid. I want to save her from pain but I don't know how.
Thursday, February 9, 2017
The snow came at 8 am.
I came back to snow all over.
The birds were still eating.
Soon we will get to have a fire again. I love this balancing act.
Monday, October 31, 2016
We have landed. The kids and I got here on a Wednesday and Thursday the kids went to school and I got a root canal. Ryan was smart, when we were out a few weeks beforehand the kids took the time to check out their schools and meet their teachers.
Transition, how is it?
Well we left our freinds of 7 years. I still don't have a go to grocery store, a doctor and transitioning to a new bank.
We are together as a family, we have all our "stuff" and we get to have story time together.
We have a land line again which works! We have internet and we have sunshine.
God has taken care of us. The kids are in a good school, we just need to learn what is expected. Anna hasn't missed the bus yet. I walk Lilly with Jonathan so that sometimes doesn't work out.
The kids are loving not having a dress code. They have some friends in the subdivision here and working on getting to know those at school and church.
Me.... I miss my freinds and my weekly activities. MOPS, bible studies, going to the Library and seeing my favorite librarian and also serving at church. I need to remember that I will have new relationships and they won't be the same. That is ok.
Posted by Nancy at 9:34 PM
Saturday, October 8, 2016
We are moving to Michigan, I mean the rest of the family. Tomorrow Ryan will have been up there 6 weeks. We get to go at the end of the week I hope to close on our new home in Linden. That is between Flint and Lansing.
First thing, we have a well and won't have to worry about the water.
We are packing up around here, books, toys, pictures on the walls. The only box I had to open again was the DVDs. The DVD player also streams Youtube so that will stay to the bitter end.
I wonder if I am hoarding boxes. I wonder how many I will use. I like the small and medium ones since they are the easy ones to deal with. Uhaul has wonderful boxes with handles, but I seem to tape over them. Home Depots have a check box on the side for the rooms they go in.
Posted by Nancy at 11:36 PM
Wednesday, September 28, 2016
A lot has happened this month that Ryan has been gone.
Anna's kitty Shay had to be put to sleep due to Feline UTI Disease. He was suffering. The vet was so nice and sent us his paw print. A few tears were shed for how nice it is to have a little something of Shay.
Floods hit the area from an hour north to an hour south. Many people were evacuated from Cedar Rapids. I took the kids Sunday to the walking bridge here in Waterloo so they could hear and feel the water's movement. To understand the enormity of the water. Thankfully since the 2008 flood people know better how to prepare and to stay safe. So many people helped it was amazing from sand bags to moving furnaces.
Anna went to her first dance at the local church. This is the thing you do and has been for 50 years. So many parents I talked to did it when they were kids. All the stories seemed to make them smile, even if they got in trouble.
Prairie Lakes Church, the Waterloo Iowa campus is merging with Hope City Church. Once most people have gotten over the shock they see how wonderful this is.
Ryan and I moved to Waterloo the time when there was only one Prairie Lakes Campus 7 years ago. Then a month later the announcement was made that they would have one near our home. There was the option to go and meet more people and serve every 3 weeks. We were up on stage, me and a bunch of other pregnant ladies to be sent out. What wonderful freinds I have been blessed with since we moved to the Waterloo Campus.
We knew PLC was the place God wanted us to be due to the peace we felt. The mission was to reach all of Iowa for Jesus. That means Waterloo and all parts of it. For years we have been helping, hosting, and loving on the area but not growing. Hope City is already drawing in community members. This is good, this was the goal from the beginning and at the perfect timing. It is a mutual relationship and I pray will prosper.
I miss Ryan
Anna misses Daddy
Lilly misses Daddy
Jonathan misses Dad who he thinks is just at work
Posted by Nancy at 10:44 PM
Monday, September 19, 2016
Tuesday, May 10, 2016
Sunday, May 1, 2016
Ryan and I have been budgeters since the first layoff of 2004. We used to follow Crown Financial and now more Dave Ramsey. Basically save so you can pay cash. When we were having our third kid we had power saved enough to pay cash for our van. When a car needs to be repaired we have a yearly budget for stuff like that. We have life insurance and a will so if we die our kids are taken care of but don't get the cash in their hands.
We are not perfect with budgeting. There are some times when there is stuff we want or need. Times when you see a great piece of equipment at a garage sale or something falls apart and needs to be fixed.
Why do we budget? To tell our money where to go. Otherwise we could easily spend $1000 on food for summer with running around to Michigan and back.
I am a computer nerd and like a program where I can plan. For years I have been using Excel but I like feed back and also cooler charts, online access and ease of use.
When Dave Ramsey started Everydollar I thought that was it. I could do it online and have it do what I needed. Here is my issue, I used to balance the Budge of $42 million dollar projects for DTE. I wanted to drag and drop lets say a gas charge into the gas category. I use an Asus tablet computer, it takes 8 seconds to drop it for who knows what reason. That drives me nuts and with 3 kids running around I get distracted. Did someone say "Squirrel?" Also it got messy if you had a deposit in from Paypal or companies who paid me. It was frustrating. For a month it wouldn't update from my bank so I lost momentum. Budgeting isn't fun but the results are. Also this was a $100 a year service. I had to pay each year to get frustrated. Their help is wonderful but the answer is "We are working on that" or "it is in the future." Maybe this is for a more novice person.
At the start of May I got Quicken. I found my old logon stuff and bought the program online for $30. That is it. I did not read any instructions and I made a budget. I uploaded from my bank account and have been since but pressing a button and putting in a password. It even throws my stuff into categories. Notice I didn't say the right ones but close. We like simple so food is just groceries and eating out. It gives us fast and coffee shops. I know what it is easily and can move it over in less than a second.
I just got it on my phone 5 minutes ago. I can up date my budget from there. Thus I could see if we have enough left in the budget for the month to go to a fancy restaurant or Mc. D. I just updated a transaction as a split and it was easy. I like easy.
I also like that it tells me all my bank accounts totals and what my credit score is to the left of my budget.
It also sends me emails when I am close to overspending. I can set up my bills, all 2 of them. Right now I can see my budget on my phone and say where we are financially. I am geeked. This is what I wanted. It is not perfect but it sure works for me. Dave I will still use your envelopes but this is what works best for my family.
Posted by Nancy at 10:54 PM