Here in India it is common for most people to either have a servant or be one. I have friends here who are not incredibly rich but have a driver, a maid or a cook.
Labor is cheap but respect is expensive.
If you have been looking at our blog you know, we respect and love Gnana. She watches Anna, takes her to and from school, cooks, cleans and is jack-of-all-trades. If it was not for her, I could not work at Growing Opportunity. When people say where is your maid I use her name.My friends refer to their "servants" as the maid, the ironer, the banana guy, the driver, the newspaper salesman or the nanny.
It does not matter if they worked for them 22 years, there are still addressed by their lowly titles. That would mean I am the intern. Even if you take pride in your work do you want to be known as the paper work guy of cube 212?
I call people by their names: Sabo, Sugie, Shrini, Angel, Rosie and there is even a Nancy on this block. I usually surprise them when I do :)